Everyone Has a Story to Tell:
Forty Years of AFS

By M. E. Eiseman

The M Press
Milwaukee, Wisconsin

1987

 

Contents

Acknowledgments
Preface

The Galatti Years: AFS Is.

The First Year, the First Bus Trip
Town Reaps Picnic Harvest
Assorted Aches and Pains: Dot and the Doctors
The First Midway: They Could Hardly Sleep
First-Class Accommodations
Harvard Bends the Rules
Homecoming for $20 Worth of Worms
When in Indiana, Do as the Hoosiers Do
Everyone Knows Mrs. Madison
Black Consciousness-Raising 101
Fascinating Washing Machine

Art Howe: Putting AFS in Order

Art Howe on 'Denationalization' of AFSers
The Eagle Letters
AFS Lasts a Lifetime
Kindness Repaid
AFS Career Goes the Distance
Comic Genius an AFSer
Neither Rain, Nor Sleet, Nor Civil War ...

The Rhinesmith Years: With Proper Training

AFS Is Love (And Marriage)
Ode to the Student Selection Process
Even the Pope Blesses AFS!
Infectious AFSitis
Hygienic Horrors
Transferable Skills
All This for Nine Hours in Thailand
AFS Roundup in Oregon
One Heart Full of Love
Bring Back Belete!
Different Tongue, Same Flour
AFS Favoritism at Stanford
Twice Sisters
AFS on Parade
Tributes

The Dyal Years: Beyond Evolution to Revolution

Chinese Changes
Teaching Teachers
AFS Mexico: Coping with Crisis
We'd Give You a Visa But ...
Staff Perspectives
To Live a Life of Meaning
English is a Funny Language
What Accent?
Accents II
Friendship Above Politics
Welcome Despite the War
A Lifetime in Ten Minutes
The Eleventh Commandment: Honor thy VOLUNTEERS!
Starting From Scratch
Here's Arizona
The Wild Hog BBQ
Growing Up in Uruguay
Unhappy Birthday
Beautiful Flowers
Thanks for Sending Our Son to Iowa
Too Much Desert

Ulric (Rick) Haynes: From Strength to Strength

The Role of AFS-from the 1986 Annual Report
Benefits All-Around
What It's All About
What Foreigner?
Goodbye is Not an Ending

Preface

It's an act of faith in something to open your home to an adolescent (or adult) from another culture, but it is a risk that thousands of families take each year. In the process, you may get to know your own family better and learn to love someone whose skin is a different color or who comes from halfway around the world.

Forty years ago, the founders of AFS International Scholarships --- the volunteer ambulance drivers of the American Field Service --- were sure that bringing young people from war-torn Europe to spend one year in the United States would be universally meaningful, even though the experience itself was personal.

Alongside the French in WWI and the British in WWII, the AFS volunteers developed friendships that personalized the wars. Their memories of people and families were more important than governments and ideologies, and this is what they sought to promote in their peace-time activities. Now, 40 years later, almost 158,000 people from 90 countries have been AFSers, having an affect on families all around the globe.

AFS has weathered many storms during its evolution, shaped by forces within and outside of its control. AFS International today is a far cry from the six-person, one-room office that served as headquarters in the early years, but, as you will see in this book, the focus has remained startlingly clear: People can learn to understand and accept differences in other people and can even learn to love each other, too. And if one person can achieve this rapport with one family, then there is increased hope for humanity. International, intercultural, interracial, interreligious, interurban ---name the gap and AFS has bridged it.

As I collected the stories that fill this book, I realized that each one illuminated a slightly different point of view or spoke with a different accent. Life-long volunteers or recent returnees, staff members or host siblings, stories and poems all make a contribution to the AFS whole and to this book.

I hope you can find your story somewhere in the following pages. But, if you read just one piece that makes you think, that challenges some prejudice, that startles you or strikes you as so funny that you have to retell it, then you, too, will have had an AFS experience. Welcome to the family!


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